“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”
Romans 12:1
Our harshest criticism most often comes from within. Recently I was working on a project and try as I might I could not please this one person. Nothing I did was enough. I was shocked as each day I received another criticism. Have you ever had that person in your path? Now we anticipate feedback from bosses and teachers, but I never expected criticism from a close friend. The reality is our harshest criticism comes from those closest to us. Whether it’s the familiarity of the relationship that gives them boldness or just them wanting to make us better, we are often blindsided by their responses.
God gives us these “sandpaper” people to refine us. He expects us to glorify Him even when dealing with critical people in our lives. He wants us to give thanks and lean on Him for patience. Most often I want to lash out or explain my side. I want them to understand how hard I am trying to do a good job. I want them to back off.
God wants a different response. He wants me to glorify Him in all my actions. He expects me to greet critical people with thanksgiving, not with resentment or hurt. Not being angry or hurt is very difficult. When I trust in God and I respond in love, God uses my response to show His love and salvation. He shows them how much He loves them through me.
What critical person is God calling you to respond to in a kind and loving manner? How is God calling you to honor Him in your next encounter? Will you honor God today in these interactions and expect Him to work in your heart? God just may use you to show His message of salvation to another.
